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Taylor Swift’s New Album, “1989,” Just Leaked. Here Are Our Instant Reactions to Every Track.

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After Taylor Swift’s album leaked online today ahead of schedule, we came to the important editorial conclusion it would be a disservice to our readers if we didn’t review her latest offering.

What follows is a transcript of the live conversation between Mother Jones engagement editor Ben Dreyfuss and Climate Desk senior producer James West as they listened to the songs for the very first time; this was the only way we could think of to get this important cultural event to you in the quickest possible manner.

This conversation has been edited for clarity—it needed it.

Track 1: “Welcome to New York”

James West: Okay. That synth beat. You were saying, Ben, that this song was pilloried. But I actually like it. It has a big, banner sound full of deep, pulsing synth; a happy beginning to the album.

Ben Dreyfuss: Right. People hate it. Actually New York hipsters hate it. But New York hipsters hate everything.

JW: And who cares if it’s a little uncool, like she thinks she’s the only one who’s ever lived here before?

BD: That’s the way people act when they come to NYC! People are stupid. It’s easy to laugh about it years later when you consider yourself a jaded Gawker reader but you were once romanticizing the city on a bus from Des Moines too.

JW: (Or on a plane from Sydney, Australia!) But also, importantly Ben, I do like how gay-friendly it is. “Boys and boys and girls and girls.” Good one, Taylor. Stick it to the homophobes.

Track 2: “Blank Space”

JW: “You look like my next mistake”—hey, that’s one helluva line. Taylor’s grown. Now that she’s in New York, she’s having some kind of bad first romance, right? That’s the narrative? It all smacks of a jealous, no-holds-barred love affair: “Fuck it,” she’s saying. And this beat is totally infectious again.

BD: The Story of Taylor’s Big Move to the Big City.

JW: That cassette click is super cheesy. But now we’re into the pared back “spoken wordy” wisdom bit. What Taylor Has Learned of Love.

BD: “I love the players. You love the game.” LOL. “Boys only want love when it’s painful” or something? That is, in my personal experience, true.

JW: I really liked that one.

Track 3: “Style”

JW: Oh, now here it comes. Instant fave this one.

BD: The beat is so good. So ’80s.

JW: It’s twilight. We’re driving on a long road trip. Blondie is definitely nearby, on a cassette tape near my feet.

BD: Michelle Pfeiffer is there.

JW: Suddenly, we’re in a truck stop, refilling the car with gas in some kind of epic, knowing way. Top Gun is playing inside on a TV. The Sunday Night Movie.

BD: “James Dean…” what was it? That is a catchy hook. Although I clearly can’t even remember it two seconds later.

JW: She’s comparing herself to a classic movie star, I think. “I got that red lip classic thing that you like.”

BD: That’s basically Lana Del Rey’s entire shtick, no?

JW: This feels better than that for some reason. Kind of.

Track 4: “Out of the Woods”

JW: Okay, here’s another single prereleased. Again, this depressed, haunting minor key thing that she’s got going on the other tracks. Incremental, darker verses, leading to loud, washy choruses. I like it.

BD: She’s doing the “here’s a story that is emotionally evocative from your teen years” thing.

JW: This is the bit about Harry Styles right?

BD: I assume so. The imagery in this song is so deliciously meaningless.

JW: This breakdown bridge bit is nice. And then the final chorus to bring it right home. Wow. There it is. That was fast.

Track 5: “All You Had To Do Was Stay”

JW: Okay, this sounds a bit more generic now. This song sounds like a first cut of one of the other tracks, to be honest.

BD: It sounds like one of Katy Perry’s lesser songs.

JW: Yes. But there’s a nice “Stay!” vocal higher up there in the mix from the backing singers.

BD: Yeah, it’s a nice refrain, but in the earlier songs some of the totally meaningless imagery worked. Here it seems like fluff that exists because the song needs some words.

JW: Totally. In fact, it’s almost a bar-by-bar formula-copy of the first four songs, just worse. Don’t get me wrong, Ben. It’s still the best thing I’ve ever heard.

BD: HAHAHA. It is catchy. By the end “Stay” does have you moving with it.

Track 6: “Shake It Off”

BD: I love this song. It’s the perfect pop song.

JW: The single! Alright, Tay Tay. I love this song, too. It’s almost too good. It’s been in my brain for weeks and weeks like a tapeworm.

BD: And here the lyrics totally work as coming from Taylor but also in their appeal to everyone. Everyone thinks everyone else is a fuckup BUT THEY DON’T SEE, well, me landing on my feet. BUT MAYBE I’M JUST PROJECTING.

JW: This is the whole “Taylor as outsider” theory advanced by, well, almost every critic under the sun. And I think it’s true. I don’t know how she’s managed to be perpetually marketed in this way. She is, well, quite a pretty, conventional singer. And let’s face it, the song is pretty bland in the sense that it recycles a lot of old stuff: the horns, the hand claps, this cheerleader thing; but the sum of Tay Tay’s parts are bigger than the individual components for sure.

BD: The cheerleader thing is the low point for me.

JW: It’s silly.

Track 7: “I Wish You Would”

BD: We’re in a car again.

JW: Ha. We are. (Did we ever leave?) Another road trip through the late ’80s landscape.

BD: The funny thing is we don’t actually drive a lot in New York.

JW: Zipcars, I suppose.

BD: This whole thing is actually just an ad for Zipcars over Uber.

JW: Musically, I like the switch between the fast, double-time verse, then the slower beat in the chorus; and this synth wash is again reminding me of watching Back to the Future as a kid.

BD: I like the “You always knew how to push my buttons” bit. The lyric isn’t great but she delivers it pretty nicely.

JW: That’s the thing. She’s really meaning all these pretty generic emotions. But that’s when the generic becomes universal, right? When you mean it?

BD: I’m impressed with her handling of the faster delivery.

JW: This song is faster than the rest, for sure. All of these songs are super-short.

Track 8: “Wildest Dreams”

BD: This is different.

JW: This reminds me a bit of Britney, actually. Dark, breakdown Britney. Sad Britney. Or the girl I saw crying on the L train the other day, with her mascara smeared.

BD: It’s funny. The image that comes to my mind is a sad Britney with smeared mascara but not on the L. I really don’t get a NY vibe from most of these. She’s sitting on the top of her beat up car at night overlooking some football field by her high school in Texas, I think.

JW: Do you think she’s ever been here to New York City?

BD: For shows. Straight from LaGuardia to MSG and then the Standard.

JW: This anthemic chorus is nice. But then, you know, these bits are my least favorite parts of her songs, these whimsical “meaningful” broken-down vocal bits, where she tries to tell you the truth. I like the “I’m not a girl, not yet a woman” vibe of the songs, rather than when she delivers half-baked truths in these bridges.

Track 9: “Bad Blood”

BD: “Bad blood” lyric to “Bad Blood” song. Is it interesting that all of these songs are her breaking up with someone?

JW: Harry?

BD: Has anyone checked on him? Is he okay?

JW: Again, her looks are really important in the lyrics: standing in a dress, rosy-cheeked, red lips.

BD: Yeah, it fits further into the Taylor as Film Star. It’s all told in a very cinematic way.

JW: Did she listen to Fiona Apple and Annie Lennox on loop before this song, with a little bit of…I don’t know…Sia Furler?

BD: I feel like Fiona Apple fans are not going to be pleased with that comment.

JW: Oh god. I don’t want Fiona Apples after me. Doesn’t delete earlier comment.

BD: It’s too late anyway. I am one of those fans. “THE CALL IS COMING FROM IN THE HOUSE.”

JW: Is she putting on a weird English accent in this bit?

BD: YES, a little.

JW: Frankly, I didn’t really like that song. A bit of a filler. Some pretty sighs but nothing that I’ll be drawn back to immediately.

BD: The sighs were the best part but yeah, no, it was maybe the worst so far.

Track 10: “How You Get The Girl”

JW: Oh, is this our first acoustic guitar? Are we back on the plane to Nashville?

BD: God, I hope we’re not on that plane. She has come so far.

JW: I’ve almost immediately written off this song half way through the chorus. This is maybe the most generic pop thing on the record so far. Twee, cloying, too cutesy; doesn’t have the heightened emotions of the first couple of tracks.

BD: I have not absorbed any of these lyrics because these lyrics aren’t meant to be absorbed.

JW: A runny slick of silliness.

BD: “Pulled your heart out, put it back together.” Wait, when did the heart break? Did it break when she was pulling it out? Was it already broken? He had a broken heart from an earlier relationship? What the hell is this song even about?

JW: I’m confused too.

BD: Is this about Ebola?

JW: ISIS?

BD: Hahahaha.

JW: I’m disappointed a bit. I have to say.

BD: Yeah I really liked a few of the earlier new ones.

JW: I’m getting a beer. Want one?

BD: Yes, please.

Track 11: “This Love”

JW: Okay. Ready to start again? Only six more songs. Go go go. Moody. This is going to be a torch ballad for sure.

BD: What is this. Is this slam poetry?

JW: It’s so…stereo. She’s coming at me in both ears.

BD: It’s like a song I remember being forced to listen to on the radio in 1993.

JW: Okay, now I’m back, Taylor. I’m so back. Are you in New York yet, Ben? I’m closer. Definitely not Texas.

BD: That’s true. She’s sitting on a stoop with a Parliament hanging out her half-gloved hand.

JW: Tay and some boy just listened to “Papa Don’t Preach” together. Now she’s by herself—

BD: —wondering if that Tisch major friend of hers who just sang that Madonna song so well?

JW: Gay? Probably. But it’s first year Tisch, so…?

BD: He hasn’t even chosen if he wants to act or direct yet. He just knows he wants to express himself.

JW: But don’t we all want that? He just want to love. Tay knows that.

BD: Five hundred twenty-five-thousand six-hundred minutes…

JW: Haha. Aaaand. Scene.

Track 12: “I Know Places”

BD: I actually hear a bit of that angry fast Fiona in this one…Wait, well I guess I did before this silly hunting hook.

JW: Yes. Wow. This is pretty stupid.

BD: “Lights flash.” What’s with her and this whole car motif?

JW: This is as close to performance art the album has seen (and only glancingly so). But this is Tay as “artist” for sure. Those Tisch classes are really rubbing off. Maybe she recently learned about this woman called “Kate Bush” and thought she was pretty dope.

BD: Oh God, that is so true. You know they are going to be playing this in dorms around Washington Square tonight and someone is going to call this the best song of the album because it’s so “meaningful.”

JW: At least those other ones we didn’t like weren’t pretentious like this. URGH, THAT CASSETTE CLICK THING DRIVES ME MAD.

BD: It’s a cassette player in a car. It’s all part of the same awful confusing element.

Track 13: “Clean”

JW: Drought! She says the word “drought!” Climate change! Taylor Swift, Climate Activist.

BD: Did global warming hurt you, Tay?

JW: Can I report on this, somehow, in my real job?

BD: Remember when Beyonce single-handedly stopped climate change?

JW: Adds link.

BD: Hahahahahaha.

JW: Okay, back to the song. We’re definitely in the softer part of the album now; the slower torch songs bunched right up at the end here.

BD: “I punched a hole in the roof.” I am Taylor. I feel things very strongly.

JW: I am nothing but feeling, and I give voice to what you feel, too.

BD: I am a feeling robot. *does robot movements* Ten months sober!

JW: “Ten months sober!” is she pretending to have had a…drinking problem?

BD: This is her song for the people who are wondering if they have a drinking problem. Tay, can do Lifetime drama too!

JW: The drought again! I’m taking this literally, I don’t care what people say. Gov. Jerry Brown listen up! Taylor’s climate album.

BD: That’s our headline.

JW: Gov. Jerry Brown Listen Up! Taylor’s Climate Album.

BD: “I think I am finally clean!”

Track 14: “Wonderland”

JW: IN THAT FUCKING CAR AGAIN. Flashing lights, take a wrong turn…spinning out of control.

BD: She seems mad.

JW: Is this the inevitable come down after the Tisch kids made her take molly?

BD: Hahahaha. “Tay, Tay, babe, you need a Xanax.”

JW: This is actually just a Rihanna song. This “eh, eh, eh” is just “Umbrella”…the chorus is pure “Umbrella.”

BD: Yeah. The truth is a lot of this album seems like a hodgepodge from a recent NOW CD. I don’t mean that in a necessarily bad way.

JW: Even this “Wonderland” refrain sounds like ‘Yonce at the end of the visual album.

BD: IT DOES. Also, like, is this song even about the Val Kilmer movie Wonderland? I don’t think so.

JW: God, it’s so MDMA-ish. Tay’s gripping her bestie’s hand rolling down the street. It’s not going to end well. “I never felt worse, but never better.” Yikes.

BD: They were in the top of some parking garage all together each with a pill in hand. “Let’s watch out for each other!” DRIVE.

Track 15: “You R In Love”

JW: These are all sounds from my ’80’s youth.

BD: Who produced this? I think when it works it really works, but when it misses it’s awf.

JW: Right. This one is working. There’s some inherent longing in this.

BD: Oh I like this bit. We’re getting back to the good Tay.

JW: Oh god. I just got chills. A little rush of truth and happiness mixed with uncertainty and… optimism?

BD: Cautious anticipation?

JW: Yes. Things are going to be okay, as long as I can master this “living” thing, you know?

BD: Oh that is good.

JW: That quiet moment before it hits the chorus kills me.

BD: It plays so well off “You can hear it in the silence.”

JW: Right. The most real stuff on the album is about falling in love. The break up songs don’t ring true. Am I onto something here?

BD: Agreed. The breakup songs sound like an act? Like a show. Like something she knows she needs to do but isn’t quite sure how to do it.

JW: Yes. Obligatory. But these long train rides home, feeling lost and sad and…urgh…it’s good. And Ben, Ben. We’re now really in New York.

BD: Yes! I’m listening to that on the F train in the winter.

Track 16: “New Romance”

JW: THE FINAL SONG.

BD: You never realize it’s going to be the last one until it’s too late.

JW: But this is worthy, I think. We’ve got this big chorus again. Happy. Shameless.

BD: I like this. I’m feeling it. This is the one song that sort of would make me want to take some molly. NOT THAT I EVER WOULD.

JW: “We’re the New Romantics”…that’s a big claim, don’t you think?

BD: Aim for the stars.

JW: And certainly, this is the most unadulterated dance-floor calling capital-A American song. Like Miley Cyrus’s “Party in the USA”.

BD: “Please take my hand and take me dancing and leave me stranded. It’s so romantic.” Oh there is so much to unpack in that last bit. So sick. So true.

JW: I keep mishearing, and instead thinking she’s singing “Everyday is like bath salts…” Which is really horrible.

BD: HAHAHAHA.

JW: AND THAT’S A WRAP LADIES AND GENTLEMEN.

VOICE MEMO

BD: Now she’s talking about how to write a song.

JW: Urgh, I just switched off. What a mood killer that was.

BD: What’s happening? She had gotten me there. Now it’s gone.

JW: Turn it off. Turn it off!

BD: Okay, off. It’s off. It’s dead. God, never include those voice memo things after dance molly anthems.

JW: So Ben. Overall takeout assessment?

BD: I have to say: I had pretty high expectations going into this and I’m not sure this whole album really met them.

JW: Right. My question going in was: Now that we’ve heard some high-water marks in the pre-releases, what will the album fill out about Taylor herself? And on that front, I did get some more from her than I expected. This whole “living, learning, loving” narrative was quite compelling, even if musically there was a rough patch in the middle.

BD: Exactly. I mean, the beginning has some real highlights and then it hits a sad monotonous valley for a bit and recovers towards the end and the last song is a smash. But I could have done without a lot of the stupid bullshit in the middle.

JW: There was some filler for sure. But, you know, on balance, I think I’m probably a little bit more of a fan than I was before (which, frankly, wasn’t that much), and I’ll definitely put on that lovesick song next time I’m drunk.

BD: Agreed. She’s definitely matured as an artist away from the Nashville nonsense that she was known for a few albums ago. I mean, this is clearly her best album.

JW: Let’s get this on the web.

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How the World Series Might Just Help the GOP Win the Senate

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Kansas City sports fans aren’t used to celebrating. The town’s NFL team, the Chiefs, hasn’t won a playoff game since 1994. The Royals, the other major sports franchise in town, hadn’t made a playoff appearance since 1985. But local baseball fans are experiencing a rare bit of jubilation this year. Not only did the Royals sneak into the playoffs as a wild card, they won the AL pennant last week and are hosting the San Francisco Giants in game one of the World Series Tuesday night.

That’s an exciting development for any millennial-aged sports fan from Kansas City who has lived a full life without post-season baseball. It’s also welcome news for a pair of Republican politicians from Kansas, Gov. Sam Brownback and Sen. Pat Roberts, both of whom are battling their way through tight reelection bids: Research has shown that important wins by local sports teams around election season can boost an incumbent’s performance.

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A 2010 study by researchers from Loyola Marymount University in Los Angeles and Stanford University’s business school looked at presidential, gubernatorial, and senate elections between 1964 and 2008, and overlaid their outcomes with results from college football games. When the local team won within two weeks of the election, the incumbent on the ballot received 1.05 to 1.47 percent more of the vote on Election Day.

But not all sports fandom is created equally, with certain victories carrying extra weight. When one of the teams that the researchers termed “locally important” won ahead of an election, they found that it could boost the incumbent’s vote share by as much as 2.42 percent—a large enough margin to swing any close contest. “We find clear evidence that the successes and failures of the local college football team before Election Day significantly influence the electoral prospects of the incumbent party,” the researchers wrote, “suggesting that voters reward and punish incumbents for changes in their well-being unrelated to government performance.”

The researchers attributed these results to an improvement in overall happiness among voters around the election, boosting a willingness to support the political status quo when they’re feeling content about other parts of their lives. The recent success of the long-struggling Royals reaching the championship round would certainly make the cut as a now important team. “These are different times in Kansas City,” declares the Boston Globe. “Passengers arriving at Kansas City International Airport on Monday were greeted with stacks of blue and white balloons with yellow crowns on top.”

Though the Royals are actually from Kansas City, Missouri, they’ve got plenty of boosters just across the border in the Sunflower State. About 20 percent of Kansas’ population resides in Johnson County, the ring of suburbs outside Kansas City and one of the pivotal electoral zones that could decide whether Brownback and Roberts get to keep their jobs next year.

Brownback, who won by 30 points four years ago, has struggled in polls against his Democratic opponent all year as voters have turned against him over his giant tax cuts and efforts to purify the state GOP. And questions about Roberts’ residency hurt his image enough that independent Greg Orman has run about even with Roberts since the Democratic candidate dropped out of the race. Both races have tightened as Election Day approaches, so don’t be surprised if Roberts and Brownback strut around town in royal blue until November 4.

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We’re Still at War: Photo of the Day for October 17, 2014

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US Marines watch explosives detonate from afar in the Philippines during a training exercise. (US Marine Corps photo by Staff Sgt. Joseph DiGirolam)

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Your Next Chapter – Evelyn D. Watkins

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3 Ways Social Media Affects Your Happiness (If You Let It)

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Matter: For Trees Under Threat, Flight May Be Best Response

A refuge won’t save the threatened whitebark pine from climate change, so scientists are pondering a radical idea: moving the trees to where they will be more comfortable. From:  Matter: For Trees Under Threat, Flight May Be Best Response ; ; ;

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Matter: Under Theat, Flight May Be Best Response for Trees

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"Support the Player and Be Quiet": What It’s Like to Be an NFL Wife

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Editor’s note: Tracy Treu worked at Mother Jones from 1998 to 2006 and is married to former Oakland Raiders center Adam Treu, who played 10 seasons in the NFL.

I’m so fed up by people blaming Janay Rice. We’re asking for incredible bravery, and we’re giving little compassion to this woman. Because it’s so easy to say: “Well, she’s the fool who married him. Why doesn’t she just leave?” There are just so many components to it that people aren’t aware of.

The NFL is a culture that values secrecy. When you’re with an NFL team, the message to you is clear: Don’t fuck anything up for your partner, and don’t fuck anything up for the team. Don’t be controversial. Don’t talk to the media. Stay out of the way. Support the player and be quiet.

I saw this firsthand. The Raiders didn’t formally sit us down—they’re not structured like that as an organization to sit the wives down and school them, and say, “This is what we ask of you.” But it is definitely passed down by the veteran wives in the league. The veteran wives will talk to the rookie wives. So will the administrative or coaching wives. It’s made very clear to you, and not in a hateful way, by any means: “Let’s work together for this one common goal: to win the Super Bowl.” That will mean, for the coaches’ families, that you’re not going to get fired and you’ll get to stay here for another year. And that might mean, for some of the marquee players, that they’re going to get a better contract.

They really don’t want anything to be a distraction from that goal. I remember getting a lot of grief for planning my first pregnancy poorly because I had our daughter during the season. You only have babies in the offseason. There are lots of informal rules like that.

And the media is the devil—the enemy. I had my husband come home and tell me, “Don’t ever talk to the media.” Guys would get teased; they’d rib each other if they were in the news, or if the wife got mentioned. There was a sportswriter for the Oakland Tribune whom I’d sometimes see at games, and Adam would be like, “What’d you say to him? Were you talking to him? Don’t talk to him.” And that’s not just Adam’s personal preference; that’s what he’d been told. I don’t know everything that was said in meetings, but that’s how it came down to me: “Did he call you? What did he say to you? What did he ask you? Don’t tell him anything.”

It’s motivated by this you-versus-the-world mentality. You know: People are going to try to take us down. People are going to try to distract us. Do not let anybody distract us from our singular goal. Looking through past notes and playbooks, a lot of coaches use a lot of war analogies and wartime quotes—they liken it to going to war. They use that to build camaraderie, and they want the wives to build camaraderie amongst each other to support the players.

Adam was the kind of player who was just hoping to make the team year to year. So it was like, don’t fuck this up for him in any way. “Don’t give them any reason to cut you,” he’d always say. But my husband was never a marquee player—he was the long snapper. So, you know, he was very anonymous. Ray Rice is in a premier position. He’s not a long snapper. He’s a running back.

And I’m sure that sort of thing was going through Janay’s mind: If I tell, and if I take away their best running back, and they lose on Sunday, that’s my fault. I did that. I set that ball in motion. This is what she was risking: embarrassing the Ravens, embarrassing her family, screwing his teammates out of their prized running back, losing money, losing security. Janay was under an incredible amount of pressure. She probably thought to be quiet was to make this go away. Because she needs it to go away.

Janay met Ray in high school. They have a daughter together. So we’re asking her to walk away from this, and it’s like, “How?” This is all she’s ever known. A lot of these wives don’t work. They can’t. They’re only living in a place for six months. Maybe the guy is playing on a new team every two or three years. He wants her home. You know, he’s not coming home and cooking himself dinner. When Adam played, I don’t think any of the wives worked. So what’s she going to leave and go do?

To be blunt, the money pads that a little bit. You get this paycheck coming in every week and you suck it up. I worked at Mother Jones when he played, and I needed that totally separate outlet. But many of these women move into town for six months during the season, and they do whatever they need to do to help their spouse win. (Which, you know, you really can’t do much. It’s not up to you.) Then they go back to wherever they’re from for the offseason. Then they repeat.

I don’t really think that’s changed much over the years. If a player has a partner, that partner needs to not be controversial. I don’t know if teams do research on players’ partners—I’d assume they do, but I don’t know. “Be seen and not heard.” That’s the assumption. Well, that and, “You’re just lucky to be here, so shut up.” He’s making great money, so you support him and shut your mouth. You’re put in a subservient position financially. He’s the star. Keep him happy.

And, in the end, why not just show up and shut up and be supportive? After all, Adam and I felt damn lucky to be in the NFL. He was a walk-on at Nebraska. Playing pro football was a dream. It made me incredibly happy to watch him play.

Most of the girlfriends and wives feel the same gratitude and happiness, and I encourage them to be supportive of the team. But that quiet support stops the second you are abused. Speak up. It’s not a secret worth keeping.

I wonder now what the Ravens will do for Janay and her daughter. And I wonder, with the league’s new, stiffer penalties for domestic violence, how many abused women will stay quiet—because that means the end of a career, the end of the insurance, the end of it all.

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